1. When entering the house greet your children with hugs and kisses. This should help develop their sense of love and care.
2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children listen, absorb and emulate.
3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care & respect your parents, the more they will learn to take care of you.
4. When out driving with them, don't just slot in your cds or listen to the radio but also interact, making the ride both fun and impactful.
5. Read them a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn't take much time, but can help create strong family bonds, the habit of studying the word daily and ultimately, creation of wonderful memories.
6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being clean and tidy has nothing to do with going out!...so true.
7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say or do. Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self-confidence and problem solving abilities.
8. Ask your children's permission before entering their rooms. Don't just knock and enter, always wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do the same when wanting to enter your room.
9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches them that no one is above mistakes and also the importance of being humble and polite.
10. Don't be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you "didn't mean it" and was "only joking". It really hurts.
11. Respect your children's privacy. Its important for their sense of value and self-esteem.
12. Don't expect that they will listen or understand sometimes. Try not to take it personal. But be patient and consistent.
13.Pray with them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example. Always the most effective method of teaching them.
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