Saturday, 2 April 2016

Relationship tips: If A Man Tells You Any Of These words, Run for your Life

I saw this piece which I consider funny and I
thought it wise to share, of course this must
have been written by a lady………….
It doesn’t matter how much of a gentleman he
has been up until that point: if a man you’re
getting to know at a bar, on a date, or online
says any of these lines, run —before he breaks
your heart, or gives you the overwhelming
urge to slap him.
*“I Could Never Date A Woman Who Earns
More Than I Do ”
So essentially, this man’s sense of self-worth,
his sense of having an equal hand in a
relationship, his sense of being
amancompletely goes out the window when
your salary exceeds his. It wouldn’t just bother
him a little to not be able to treat you to nicer
things. He is saying hecould not standto have a
woman make more money than he does. Forget
if she is happy in her career: if it makes him
unhappy , he’s out of there. Pretty selfish
when you think about it that way.
* “I Banged This One Chick”
Don’t trust guys who say banged in
seriousness. Plenty of guys use that term
jokingly, but men who use it in casual
conversation, in lieu of “hooked up with” or
“slept with” have pretty degrading views of
women . Think about that word: “banged.” It
implies asserting complete control over
something, it can even imply causing pain to
something, and it implies doing something
rapidly then moving on. Gee. What a romantic.
* “I Don’t Find Women Funny”
Science has actually found a connection
between a sense of humor and intelligence.
That study helps us make a quick connection to
this next point: men who say women aren’t
funny are essentially saying women are not
smart. To be funny you need to be astute, to
pick up on subtle, unspoken connections
happening around you, to analyze people. A
man who says a woman isn’t funny is saying
that a woman can’t do those things.
* “What Happens In Vegas Stays In Vegas”
Anyone who actually uses this saying as a
license to cheat on their significant other, get
arrested for indecent exposure, pick upa street
walker, and gamble away money is someone
who is looking for excuses to behave poorly.
And they’ll look for them Vegas or no Vegas.
* “I Don’t Like To Use Condoms”
This is not an excuse not to use one! I mean,
try a little harder like, “I just got all my test
results back and they were negative” or “I’ve
never had unprotected sex before.” I’m not
saying a women should consent to not using a
condom for those reasons, but at least it
shows that you don’t think you’re completely
entitled to putting a woman at risk of painful
and even deadly illnesses, all because you
don’t “like’ to use condoms. Sorry, do you also
not like the crusts left on your sandwich little
boy?
* “She Was Such A H*”
Are some women, well, slutty? Yes. Does
anything good come of calling them so? No.
Only a very angry man—typically with anger
against women in general—openly calls his ex
girlfriend a “wh*re.”
* “Because She Was Being silly ”
If this is a man’s answer when you ask, “So
why did you and your ex breakup?” you have a
man with zero communication skills on your
hands. Oh, and to compensate for his barely-
there vocabulary, he just trash talks his ex.
“She was being silly”? What is she—a friend
who stole your toy truck?
* “So I Just Stopped Answering Her Calls ”
Another non-communicator on your hands.
You know all those guys who broke your heart
and made you feel like you didn’t matter when
they just stopped responding to your texts and
calls? Well just because this particular guy
didn’t do that to you, he is still one of them!
He is the type who will avoid confrontation
and open communication at all costs, even if
that means making a woman think she’s done
something wrong when she has not.
*“FML, LOL, ROLF”
Men who can’t speak like grownups are not
grownups. It’s okay to occasionally—jokingly—
speak in Twitter jargon. But a guy who speaks
like this regularly, and seriously, probably also
still drinks too much during the week and
“bangs” chicks.
*“I Got Hookups All Over Town ”
If a guy is telling you how he could get you
into the busiest clubs, get you a table right
now at the most sought after restaurant, and
introduce you to a celebrity this means two
things: A) He is proud of some pretty silly stuff
and B) He is a major partier/playboy!
* “My Girlfriend /Wife Just Doesn’t Understand
Me ”
Philandering men love to appeal to a woman’s
sensitive side when looking for a hookup. They
know women like to analyze and “understand”
people and when they hear those little magic
words, “My wife doesn’t understand me…” it’s
like a challenge to understand the guy. And
somehow, in the process, he can try to seduce
you. If this guy actually cared about his
marriage/relationship he wouldn’t be out
telling strangers in tight dresses about his
problems: he’d be at home fixing them. I hope enjoyd reading this drop your comments.

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